Originally Posted by
pisces7378
I don't want to seem rude. But at the same time I want to protect myself from seeming too attached to her, when I am simply not.
Sounds a little like you are still a touch hung up on her.
Unlike with dining at a fine restaurant, there are no rules to dating/breaking up, because there are too many situations. There can't be a psychological break down on how to handle EVERYTHING because there are just too many specific situations.
Maybe instead of reclaiming your town in your old way, find new ways to reclaim it. Discover some new bars, friends, ect.
Meet knew people, have casual flings and re-discover yourself. It's always hard to let someone go when you're dwelling on them.
Give me something I can take,
Can take to make the memories fade.
Poison kiss, remember this,
I never was meant for this day.