Hi,
I'm new here and I'd love to get the advice of the men out there.
I've been dating my boyfriend for close to 7 months now. We dated in the past (years ago) for almost 2 years.
Back in the day (round 1) I was over weight and really insecure and stuff but since the break - I've changed so much.
I'm very confident, happy, I lost weight and everything is at a 180 for me.
Here's the thing:
my bf always had a low sex drive (lower than I'd like) but we still do have sex once or twice a week and the sex itself is great.
In the past few years I started pole dancing classes and got a pole in my apartment.
Before I got with my bf (round 2) any guy that came into my apartment (date, neighbor, friend) would obviously be intrigued by the pole and (jokingly) hint at wanting to see something - I NEVER did that for anyone because I thought the person I'd do that for, would have to be special to me - he'd be my man!
so I gave my bf a "coupon" for a dance as part of his bday gift at the end of march and he still hasn't even tried to get it.
I just don't understand what it is. I did that for him because I think he's special, he treated me well always and I love him, he loves me.
I dunno, I think its because he doesn't have the "normal" guy attitude towards it that I feel confused.
Why not?
wouldn't a guy love to get a strip tease pole dance from his gf?
I don't get it - he gets excited when I put on a sexy outfit for him, he gets excited when we make out ->leads to sex usually - but I don't understand why he doesn't want to see me that way.
I really thought that most guys would love it if their girl can pole dance and would dance ONLY for them.
Any insight?
Thanks