Her First Boyfriend
Hello ladies, I recently asked a girl out I've known for almost 3 months, we've been hanging out with each other at least 5 days a week. We got more intimate and close with every passing day. I have asked her to date me 1 week ago but she said "I don't now" and that she doesn't want to get too serious and I didn't wanna pressure her so I stopped pursuing. Yesterday, when we were pretty intimate, I asked her to date me again, and this time I told her to "seriously consider my feelings because I really like you and if there's something you're unsure of or want to talk about, I'm here to listen." She still said "I don't know" and she looked serious enough that I said "It's okay, take your time"
Then we went to class, after class, we met up and she came over to my dorm to study. After 2 hours of studying, I moved myself to my bed and studied there. Out of nowhere, she told me "I'll be with you, but I'm scared, you're my first boyfriend and I don't know what to expect", I told her it's okay to be "scared, but you won't be over time" then we smiled at each other for a while. I told her I was very happy.
I'm not sure what I did was right, but I'm her first boyfriend, I really like this girl, and there's potential for a serious and long relationship, can anyone kindly give me some advice on what to expect or what to be careful about with girls who never had a boyfriend before?
"In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing."
-- Mignon McLaughlin