being told what to do

[leight69]

Ladies...How do you like being told what to do? Do you find your partner being more in control a turn on?

Guys...How do you partners react to you being in control?

[Sami09]

i dont like when people control me. Its not good for a relationship. its a turn off to me. I myself am not controling of my bf i love him and just want him happy i dated my man for 15 months its serious and dont want to come off as control just like seeing and spend time with him

[leight69]

Sorry I should be more specific....I meant in bed...ie: having sex...ergo, doing the wild monkey dance...fooling around...boneing...etc

[Fawn]

Forplay I like to take control, but I don't mind it coming from him either. Sex, I prefer him taking control....

[sweetdreamz018]

Well, when fooling around and stuff with my bf (not sex, not yet), I like both, but most of the time I like it when he takes control, when he tells me what he wants me to do to him and stuff like that. hehe. But every once in awhile, it's fun when I take control, and he seems to like it a great deal

[jane]

control.. hmm... well.. I like being told what to do as long as you arent barkin orders at me... but I have to say .. when in comes to sex.. I am the one thats usually in control. Not because I always want to be.. it just seems to work out that way.

See.. the key for me is .. If I could find a guy who let me be in control but took control sometimes.. well, Id probably marry him.

[Canibus]

My girlfriend loves being submissive. She loves it when
I sit on her chest so she can suck my cock and lick my
balls. And I love it too HA!

[PandaCivic]

sometimes it's kinda boring for the guy to be in control. it's like, no surprise at all. most of the time, when a girl/woman does something unexpected, it makes me that much more excited. but when I want something done, i guess it's impossible but i want her to read my mind. or at least have sex with me enough times to know what i want. verbal sex is okay but she and i should know what the other wants. equal oppurtunity sex is good. )

[Killerbabe]

My girlfriend loves being submissive. She loves it when
I sit on her chest so she can suck my cock and lick my
balls. And I love it too HA!

Sound more like being mortified, I'd say. And don't her boobs hurt when you sit on her chest?!

[Killerbabe]

It is quite nice actually when a man stays in control (a little possessiveness is considered, erm "sweet"), but don't get me wrong it's awfully annoying when a man thinks he owns you.

I think most girls will admit that being dominated is extremely sexy.

[britishchick]

i agree 100% killerbabe it is a huge turn on and extremely sexy.especially when they do something unexpected. And your right...every girl likes their man to be a little possessiveness...afterall if they werent at all ...we would think they didnt care what we did!

[Canibus]

No killerbabe I sit just above her breasts when
doing that. On the outside she looks very innocent
and if you saw her you'd think she's never
done it before at all. But she takes on a
different persona in the bedroom and loves
the agressive/controlling stuff and licking balls etc

[BillyGalbreath]

ON YOUR KNEES BITCH !!!!

No, it doesn't seem to go over well with the ladies...

[CR's Baby Girl]

i used to be the real shy quiet type that didnt want to talk at all while messin around b/c i was afraid of sayin something that the other person would think was stupid but now that i have found a guy that i am completely comfortable with i think it extremely sexy to be told what to do and be able to do the same to him. i think its just amazing to be able to have the communication like that with him and not have to worry about what he might think b/c i know i can be 100% open around him. it is amazing and i love it.

[Canibus]

I agree there with you. To be able to explore
all your fantasys while being comfortable to do
so is amazing.