Alright, a quick summary of the situation I got myself into. A lil over a month back I got to know one of my peers in my ROTC battalion, Gina, at a field training excersize we had. She is very cute and physically I was very attracted. After getting to know her over the following weeks I grew to really like her. But, come to find out, she has a boyfriend of two years back home in New York. Ignoring this fact we continued to innocently flirt until it got to the point where we had to draw a definite line that we could not cross (which is basically making out). We are two GIANT flirts and in fact even sometimes walk hand in hand, often get into tickle battles, and have crashed in the others bed after long movie nights three times now.
We dont talk about it often but from what I can gather for the past 6 months they have been going through a falling out. She knows that she loves him but not in a romantic way anymore and is confused on what to do. She is going home for thanksgiving is going to talk to him about it and if I am reading her right she is going to end up breaking up with him.
I really like this girl and want to pursue this as a relationship if her and her boyfriend do breakup in the near future. If they don't, then my dilemma is solved and I back off. But if they do break up, how do I go about handling it. I don't want to be a rebound and have our relationship based on that, those never last. What do I do?
I tried to include all the necessary details, but if you have any other questions that could help, ill be glad to answer.