Not sure if my girlfriend really love me. Please help.

[dearman]

My girl friend and i have been into relationship for three years now. We leave not too far from each other. I have visited her in her house severally, not less than 10 times, i have been asking her to pay me a visit, and anytime i ask her, she keeps giving me excuses that she want to visit her cousin and that she will not have chance. The last time i ask her, she told me she will come on a particular day, but she did not come. Does this girl loves me? Is this a good sign for a serious relationship? Should i still give her another chance? Thanks and God bless you.

[breathe123]

You only visited her 10 times in three years & she has never visited you in three years? She isn't considering your feelings at all and when you love another you take their feelings & wants into consideration too. If was me I'd show up unannounced & visit her & see what is actually going on with her & talk face to face about this relationship.

[smackie9]

You have sex during any of these visits?

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IMO if it hasn't progressed to you both living together by now I say no she doesn't. Most girls in love would be expecting marriage.