Is letting a girl know your interested unattractive???

[Infern0]

Seems to me that most girls prefer to do the chasing, if they know a guy is interested in them they think they have one over on you and you become less attractive to them.

discuss....

[Boisdevie]

Not in my case. I told her on day one exactly how I felt. I told her on our second meeting that I wanted her. One our third meeting we had lots of lots of sex. Sometimes honestly can be the best policy. Don't know if women generally get turned off by men who are keen. But why waste time and play stupid games?

[adam95]

well before me and my gf got together she really seemed to love the thought of me being interested in her. i think it just depends on the girl.

[vashti]

Seems to me that most girls prefer to do the chasing, .

No, they don't.

[girl68]

^ Generally speaking I agree.

[xxazurexx]

How old are you? 14?

[Been there!]

I don't know any girls that want to do the chasing, but I know they do because thats the only way they can get someone. If your interested in someone than say it, but only if your confident enough to know she's into you. She's going to feel bad if she doesn't feel the same and has to admit it. Basically say your into her and make it a casual thing to see her, do not hassle her about it.

[UntamedHeart]

I can only speak for myself of course, but I would prefer a man letting me know how he feels. I find the confidence extremely sexy.