Hey, how do girls perceive a guy that is a virgin?
I guess it really depends on the girl... I've chosen to stay a virgin so far because I think making love is a sacred thing to be saved for someone I am in love with. I guess staying a virgin is rare, for both guys and girls (I'm in my 20's). I haven't really pursued girls much in my life, busy with college and work, plus relationships are expensive emotionally and financially and I didn't feel it was worth the risk of heartbreak.
Recently I moved to a big city, where there are a lot more girls that could interest me. I've never really had a girlfriend, first girl I was in love with was when I was a teenager, and she lived far away from me so it was not possible to have a relationship. Second girl I cared about didn't care about me, so that didn't work out. Both searingly painful. The last experience has left me questioning if I want to open up again or even look for a real relationship. I'm thinking I may want to make friends but not take it further.
It seems some girls can figure out a guy is a virgin, I don't know exactly how. Is this unappealing to a girl? Do you think this may create roadblocks to making friendships with girls? It's not like girls are going to tell me "you seem like a virgin, I don't want to talk to you", lol.
What are your thoughts?