I think the two of you need to talk about it and work together. I hear women, never men, bitch about not being satisfied all the time. Problem is, they're bitching to their girlfriends rather than to the one person who can actually make a change. The one person who, if he's at all worth your time, should want nothing more than to listen to your advice and do the best he can to satisfy you.
God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
-Mark Twain
If people are good only because they fear punishment and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed.
-Albert Einstein