Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 1 year and 8 months We are still in high school i am a senior and he is a junior. His mom liked me at first i guess however once we got futher into the relationship things kinda got bad. She doesnt really let us go out outside of school we cant really talk on the phone and he doesnt really have texting either. His mom is very overprotective. One time at a band and colorguard party she had one of the moms take pictures of us and send them to her, later on that night she called me and told me that she thought we should spend more time with other people and less time together. Then an other time she called me during thanksgiving brake last year and said my boyfriend and i where being to lovey on facebook(because she reads his messages) and said that her son knows better then that and she wants him to put God first and all that. Then just about two months ago he and i where talking by my class and his mom shows up at school and tells him to get to clas. So as soon as he got to class the late bell rang anyways later on that day his mom calls me and says" I dont appreiciate my son being late to class, i think your a beautiful sweet girls but sometimes i think your a bad influnce on him and i dont like it my son knows better" and all that jazz oh and i always am nice to her and try talking to him mom and i say hi to her every time i see her so when she was on the phone she said " Your smiles and hellos arent going to win over my graces" and " Im not gonna go anywhere." and it mad me angry because i make an effort to talk to her..
I also dont like how my boyfriend can hang out with his other friends but can hardly ever hang out with me... and ive talked to talk to him about my feelings towards all this and all he says is " Im trying to fix it" or "if i could change what my mom thougt i would" However it doesnt seem like he is trying and when i tell him that he just gets pissed.
I love him alot i really do and i dont ever want to lose him because he is truly amazing.. and to be honest i dont think we would fight as much as we did if his mom wasnt so up tight...
What should i do? any advise?