One Month
So, I'm reaching my one month mark with Y (the new boyfriend I wrote about in my last update thread) and I have to say, I'm incredibly happy! Being with him has made me realize just how long it's been since I've been in a good relationship with someone, especially one where *I* feel whole-heartedly into the person. It's kind of a weird feeling since I'm so used to having doubts and/or worries in the back of my mind (even in "good" relationships).
I keep waiting for the "fatal flaw" Giga mentioned, but nothing has surfaced yet. He's kind, funny, and confident, sexy, and smart as hell. We have alot of fun together, and haven't had one debate or argument. We keep speculating about what our "first fight" is going to be about and joke that we should just have one to get it out of the way. He met all my good girlfriends the other night and they ALL gave him the thumbs up.
Intimately, the sex is off the charts. It's almost spooky the way he anticipates what I want in bed and does it to me without me asking. I'm so attracted to him that I find myself fantasizing about him when we're not together.
He's also incredibly communicative. He texts, calls and emails all the time but isn't clingy either. Maybe this would bother some women, but not me. Personally I need this level of closeness with someone and I need to know that someone's thinking about me the way I think about him.
And I just found out his company is going to sponsor him for his green card so we don't have to worry about him leaving the country (he's here from London on a work visa). Yay!
So overall, it's going very well. Beyond well. Amazing!!!
I have LF to thank for helping me keep my head on so straight that I didn't somehow miss out on this guy when he came my way. My dating the sloth was pretty much the LOWEST I got when it came to relationships. Being here on the forum not only helped get over the sloth very quickly, but also helped me to keep a healthy perspective on love and dating. Ultimately I think it helped me make better dating decisions.
So, thanks guys!
“Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist”--George Carlin