3-way follow-up

[nebulachic]

Hey everyone,

I am curious to hear from men who have had 3-ways. Mostly I want to know...

1) Do you think about the experience a lot? If so, how long ago was it?
2) Do you think about it ever/alot during sex?
2) Do you wish you could experience it again?
3) If you're now with a partner who says they would never engage in it.. does it bum you out?

[blue toxin]

I have not experienced a 3 way, however I find far FAR more men say they were not what they cracked up to be as opposed to men who favored them.

Quite frankly I don't see how they can be that enjoyable... I'd rather concentrate on one person.

[blackiesharley]

Hey everyone,

I am curious to hear from men who have had 3-ways. Mostly I want to know...

1) Do you think about the experience a lot? If so, how long ago was it?
2) Do you think about it ever/alot during sex?
2) Do you wish you could experience it again?
3) If you're now with a partner who says they would never engage in it.. does it bum you out?

My first thought when reading your question was to post a warning: Be careful, be VERY careful about engaging in threesomes. Sure, it can be fun but once the alcohol wears off and the parties involved realize what happened, there can be problems. I know as I've been there several times. Sometimes fantasies should remain just that, fantasies.

Regarding question number 3, yes I would do it again but NOT with someone I really care about though. If it was just a 'fling' with a 'friend' OK, it could be fun, but when I have feelings for someone, at least these days I don't plan on sharing. I've become greedy that way.

In answer to question number 4, for me at least the answer is no. In fact I was rather relieved when my new lady (New Orleans Gal for those of you who have been following my saga) told me that she wasn't into other girls at all. I liked hearing that a LOT. Our bed is sacred turf.

Having said all the above, I really don't regret some things that have happened in the past at all, despite the negative outcome (one situation in particular) it was fun at the time and most men only just get to fanatise about it but it's not for me anymore, at least not with someone I love.

[blackiesharley]

I pretty much agree with Blackie. It can only work with someone you don't love.

Yeah, I just can't envision seeing my lady with anybody else, another hot chick or not. I'm not possessive or jealous at all, if we're out at a club and she wants to dance with a co-worker or casual friend, great, go have a good time. I'll be here at the table.

But actual sex? Nahhh... Not anymore for me. If it was 'just a friend' sure why not? But not somebody you really care about in a long term way.

Like I said be careful. Be VERY careful. I speak from experience.

[polo]

i never done it ...i dont think i would like it either. I already am fullfilled with just one girl. everyone is different though.

[blue]

Hey,
im not a guy but ill still answer form my point of view

1) Do you think about the experience a lot? No usually in this position it was just some chic and that that see you later grab your clothes and get out! If so, how long ago was it? 2 days ago2) Do you think about it ever/alot during sex? no not during sex, but i dont want to hear my so talk about it either in passing2) Do you wish you could experience it again? if the moment is right yeah i guess but i noticed with three ways it could be boring3) If you're now with a partner who says they would never engage in it.. does it bum you out?nope

threesomes ar enot all they are cracked up to be

[shai`anne]

I want to know if any of you guys had a 3 way with a girl and another guy? Most guys say they wouldn't do it. If you did then were you also interacting with the guy?

[BlackiesHD]

I want to know if any of you guys had a 3 way with a girl and another guy? Most guys say they wouldn't do it. If you did then were you also interacting with the guy?

My three-way experiences were with my ex-wife and other women.

However we did 'play' with another couple once (a four way?) in a jacuzzi but I had no interaction with the guy who was a friend and business partner.

For what it's worth, although I had no problem with it, the next morning when the alcohol wore off my ex-wife flipped. That morning was the beginning of the end, I'll never forget it.

Then his wife started wanting to have a thing with just me. (I wouldn't) It became complicated real fast.

BE VERY CAREFUL ABOUT THIS! You're playing with fire. Safer to rent a porno with your partner and fantasize together. And leave it at a fantasy.

[lilwing89]

Hey everyone,

I am curious to hear from men who have had 3-ways. Mostly I want to know...

1) Do you think about the experience a lot? If so, how long ago was it?
2) Do you think about it ever/alot during sex?
2) Do you wish you could experience it again?
3) If you're now with a partner who says they would never engage in it.. does it bum you out?

1: i never had a 3some and i never think about them because they dont make me horny or whatever... and it would hurt me if a girl i loved did a 3some
2: i NEVER even think about it
3: i dont want to experience it
4: no it doesnt 'bum me out' that she doesnt want a 3some because i dont want one either. if you are with a guy that wants a 3some tell him you dont want to do that and EXPECT HIM TO RESPECT THAT

[Gigabitch]

Neb, is it him or you that's obsessing over this three-way?

[nebulachic]

It's me.. because I'm always thinking HE'S thinking about it when we're having sex. I asked him the other day if and how often he does think about when we're having sex and he said never.. and that he is only focused on me and reminded me how when we first started dating how he said it was so nice to NOT have to think about anyone else (like he has with other women in the past). He did tell me a while back though that he thinks about it when he masturbates sometimes.

[Gigabitch]

Well, do you think only about him when you masturbate?

[vashti]

I think you should quit getting info about his previous sexual experiences and allow his fantasies remain private because you read too much into them.

[Gigabitch]

Good point, Vashti.

Hey nebulachic, the fact is, you're a fantasy come true for him, too. You're his hot young thing. Use it.