I apologize if this isn't the right forum for this but I thought posting on a parenting forum but seem fishy...still might but any help here would be appreciated.
My 15 year-old daughter and I have always been extremely close and she has always been able to tell/ask me anything. Recently, she came to me and told me how many of her friends are starting to have sex but that she wants to resist and hold-out for someone special. She made sure to preface it though with that she is a normal teenage girl with questions, curiosity, etc. She then proceeded to tell me how she wanted to get an ‘adult toy’ for herself but with no credit card, no driver’s license, etc she needed my help.
After I picked my jaw from the floor, I bought myself time saying we would discuss on the weekend when I am not swamped with work. Now I sit here running through what to do. On one hand I realize how lucky I am/how great she is for holding off exploring with someone else and that a toy is a much safer/better option, especially at this time. However, I can also say I never dreamed of taking a mother/daughter trip to the sex shop. I could buy from amazon for her but I have never even bought for myself and only used once and I assume she doesn’t know what to get either. Plus am I really going to pay for my daughter’s ‘toy’? Sends shivers down my spine.
Has anyone experienced anything similar? Did you resolve it? Thoughts?