Hi guys,
I'll try to keep it short, I'm 22 years old, my gf is 21, we have been together for around 8months now. This is my first ever relationship as before this I pretty much slept around for 5 years.
We work together, and saw each other an awful lot for the first 4 or 5 months. Even when I didn't want to see her, she would cry and phone me every hour or so to speak to me. Very needy! Lately, she has put a little bit of weight on and just lacks the confidence I used to love from her(she still has a great body - its crazy how her mind works).
I've tried giving her compliments, kind gestures and to make her feel good etc but it just gets knocked back. For every 50 compliments I give her, I might get one back (no exaggeration!). She just doesn't want sex anymore and its starting to affect my confidence as well - to the point where I feel like giving up with everything.
I really need to figure out how we can change things, get a bit of a spark back which sounds like a cliche but hopefully it helps to boost her confidence. Our sex used to be amazing so I really want to show her how sexy she is rather than just say it. Actions speak louder than words and all that.
What is the best thing I can do? Any help would be appreciated!!