I am angry at my ex partner. We split over a year ago but he has been wanting us to meet up the whole time and i have been saying no because i know i may get back with him if i do that. Hes saying hes a changed man and would like us to talk but since i got put into a womans refuge because of him and have moved into a new house i dont want to go back for it to happen again but i do still love him. Anyway he lives in london and i live in birmingham and now hes told me hes got a job in birmingham and will be here for a month and maybe we can meet up for lunches. Im so angry about this because i think hes got that job on purpose when he could have got one in london. He doesnt know where i live but he knows where i go out and im thinking that im bound to bump into him when im out now i felt so much better knowing he was in london and there was a distance between us and now hes in my city im angry bout it.