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    I think i am getting obessed with this guy at the office who is constantly flirting with me in a sexual or sometimes cute way!!He is 6 years older than me and is getting married in a few months!!

    I have been working at the particular firm since october and now i find it hard to get him out of my mind, even the hours I'm not at work!

    Clearly he wants to get me into bed, but although I really like him Im afraid that if I sleep with him I might also fall in love!!

    *i'm quiting my job in a month because I'm going away to study!!!

    what should i do??????

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    um..def don't sleep with him. Your one night stand could potentially ruin his marriage...is that something u could live with? I mean, it may be his fault but don't encourage it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by barbie girl View Post
    what should i do??????
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    Quote Originally Posted by brandon814 View Post
    um..def don't sleep with him. Your one night stand could potentially ruin his marriage...is that something u could live with? I mean, it may be his fault but don't encourage it.
    I'm almost sure this marriage is already ruined ,before it started . He leaves her after 1-2 year, or he will cheat on her on and on and on... This guy is a totally crap... I don't understand why such people get married if already before they do it, they think about popping someone else...it's sick
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    i would be glad i wasn't about to be married to him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by barbie girl View Post
    I think i am getting obessed with this guy at the office who is constantly flirting with me in a sexual or sometimes cute way!!He is 6 years older than me and is getting married in a few months!!

    I have been working at the particular firm since october and now i find it hard to get him out of my mind, even the hours I'm not at work!

    Clearly he wants to get me into bed, but although I really like him Im afraid that if I sleep with him I might also fall in love!!

    *i'm quiting my job in a month because I'm going away to study!!!

    what should i do??????
    send his wife an anonimous note.
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    oh snap you are so evil.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Indignant View Post
    that's cuz i've been in that situation...and the guy is now on his at least 10th victim after me, that being married with kids. wish i could force myself to slip his wife a note, but i know i can't. if she ever finds out, let it be from someone else.
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    Some people are such slime. I'm with the note sending crowd.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dawood68 View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by barbie girl View Post
    I think i am getting obessed with this guy at the office who is constantly flirting with me in a sexual or sometimes cute way!!He is 6 years older than me and is getting married in a few months!!

    I have been working at the particular firm since october and now i find it hard to get him out of my mind, even the hours I'm not at work!

    Clearly he wants to get me into bed, but although I really like him Im afraid that if I sleep with him I might also fall in love!!

    *i'm quiting my job in a month because I'm going away to study!!!

    what should i do??????

    I strongly recommend not to get involved with this guy. To him you are nothing more but a toy.

    You're better than that. Keep your dignity and self respect and tell him to leave you alone or you'll expose him in front of all co-workers.

    In case you aren't aware of this: if you ask him to stop and he continues, it's considered workplace violence in the United States and you can press charges.

    This informative video may provide you with some clues on how to deal with the situation: [URL="http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-cope-with-a-flirtatious-co-worker"]http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-cope-with-a-flirtatious-co-worker[/URL]

    Use common sense and good luck.
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    I totally thought this was a troll.

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    "Barbie girl"?

    "should I sleep with my co-worker who is getting married to someone else?"

    Definitely a troll.

    Or a giant idiot.

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