Originally Posted by
endlesspain
I see where you coming from...but my past two relationships before dealing with this person happened like this....My first real girlfriend broke up with me, and i begged and pleaded, and gave her logical reasons on why i think we will work...in return she got further turned off. I then learned about no contact a couple months after break up, and started leaving her alone, she then talked about how she missed me, and when I saw her, we ended up having sex...I took this as a sign, and started telling her about my feelings and then she left me for good...My 2nd majore relationship(which I was more experienced in) I gave this girl the world, and did everything for her, then she left me for another guy...when she told me what she did, i hung up the phone after telling her to live her life, and dont waste anymore of my time, she then tried to leave the other guy and get back with me, but i was disgusted she did that and did not want her back, i was so pissed, because i did so much, and was even helping her take care of her sick mom and help her with her rent....these are examples why i dont think confession of love works, and moving on with your life and showing u dont care works better