when do you feel commited??

[danielclark]

Just wondering how long or after how many dates with someone does it normally take before you feel you are commiting to someone. I understand this might very with each person you are with.

I am asking this because I tend to commit very early, and was just wondering other peoples views on this.

[sookie6]

I am a bit cautious with people who say 'I love you' too soon or express commitment too early in the relationship.

They are usually the same people to detach themselves very easily from the relationship...

I am curious in past breakups did you take long to recover?

Sorry I know this is not really the purpose of your thread but that's what came to my mind when reading it