Originally Posted by
younglady50
Now everything I say to my b/f, he dissects it. I came home last night, looking forward to being with my b/f. He asked me one question about whether or not I talked to him. I said, "of course I talked to him." I must have said it in a tone that ticked him off. He felt that my statement meant that I was sticking up for my husband. How can you not talk during a time like this?
He then started slamming doors and slamming windows closed and screaming all over the place. I tried to talk to him. He continued on with his rage. What should I do? He is a 65 year old man and I am 52 years old.
Wow, you'd expect someone to be a little bit more mature at 65 than that.
Well, how about you dissect his behaviour for a moment. He is calling you a liar and he is fearful that your ex husband might "steal" you away from him. What that means is that he thinks that given half a chance you would go back to your ex husband. Which means that he doesn't trust you at all. This is a lot more about your relationship with him, than it is with your relationship with your ex husband.
Why does he have so little trust in you? Is the question you should be asking him imo.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
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