Just to clear this up...

[Zehx]

When you find someone your crazy about, its not just me that thinks that they suddenly become the most beautiful person in the world and nobody ever seems quite as attractive as they are. It also feels like you don't want to be with anyone else and that's completley normal right? I mean you think about them all the time etc. etc. Not just me?

It's just driving me crazy feeling like "Do i deserve this? I feel like one of the luckiest people in the world"...

[Cbrider]

Embrace it and be thankful for what you have?



No need to get weirded out and question it, take it for what it means to you. Every time I strap on a helmet I know I am chancing I wont make it home again, so I try to take every chance and opportunity I get in all areas of life.

Welcome to cloud nine.

[Gigabitch]

Oh, welcome to the neighborhood. I live here too.

[Zehx]

Yeah, I dont understand myself... I sent her a dozen roses for V Day and I regret it. It makes me feel desperate or needy when that isnt the case I just wanted to do something nice for her and now I feel down about it.... it just seems like women take sweet gestures like that the entire wrong way. and no this wasnt our first date we have been together for several months but i feel still stupid about it. Am i being insecure?

[Sonrisa]

Yeah, I dont understand myself... I sent her a dozen roses for V Day and I regret it. It makes me feel desperate or needy when that isnt the case I just wanted to do something nice for her and now I feel down about it.... it just seems like women take sweet gestures like that the entire wrong way. and no this wasnt our first date we have been together for several months but i feel still stupid about it. Am i being insecure?

what? you regret sending flowers to her?

[Gigabitch]

Yes, you're being insecure. A confident man would feel proud about sending flowers.

Look, I know how you feel. I'm sure you spend at least some of your time feeling overcommitted and fretting about whether she respects you at all, reciprocates your feelings, etc.

Try to enjoy it. It's exhilirating as well as frustrating.

[Zehx]

Wow... I think you hit the nail right on the head...

[Tiay]

yup, completely normal and healthy. Enjoy

[carl1222]

Enjoy the feelings and I wish you all the best. Nothing at all abnormal about them.

Send flowers, tell her how you feel. Some (thankfully not here yet) may tell you to play it closer to the vest because she may take advantage of your feelings and honesty ... but wouldn't it be important up front for you to know if she would do something like that to you?

Have fun with your new infatuation! Who knows ... it may turn to love someday!!

Carl.