Well let me just start out by saying that I am getting pretty frustrated right now. I’m confused and babbled with this problem, I just don’t know what to do. My mind is going crazy!!
I’m friends with this girl who I had liked for a while now; she started working at the same store as me last winter break. When we first meet I definitely thought there was an attraction on both sides, we went out once, the date went great so I thought. I asked here out again and she gave me a lame excuse. I asked her out the third time and got shot down again. I just couldn’t believe it, I thought we had the best time on that first date but I guess she did not see it that way. So she left and I promised myself I would forget about her, and I did. Later in the spring she came back, I tried to avoid here for the first few days, still kinda embarrassed from the shut downs earlier. As luck would have it I ended up working with her in the same area were all we did was talk all day. The first few days went great; we were flirting and joking all day. She kept on sending me these mixed signals though, her inviting me to visit her at her college, and a bunch of other nonsense like being her facebook friend and other crap. I really didn’t know what to think of it. Later on I ended up inviting here to do something we were both talking about earlier. She said yes and I left it at that. When I asked here about the potential date and time she gave me another weird answer “my name sigh….” When I heard that I was somewhat disappointed because it sounded like a “no I really don’t want to”. I shrugged it off and didn’t let it get to me. I am really confused here. Why would you lead someone to believe that you’re interested then shut him or her down like that? When I came back after my days off I began to talk to her again, I was definitely not in the “flirtatious” mood. I felt like crap and it showed. She got the best of me. I even felt like inviting some girls that like me just to make her jealous but I know that’s kinda ridicules. I am definitely still attracted to her, I think? Some times I don’t want to be. I like her but at the same time I don’t. I’m just so confused. I know I can’t talk to her about this whole thing because it will make things more awkward. What the hell should I do?