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    why is my ex ignoring me?

    basically,
    he broke up with me because he felt I wasnt close enough to is new friends since we started uni, he didnt feel in love with me anymore etc... I accepted this, though obvs upset, we went on summer break for 3 months- barely had any contact - odd fb chat -we came back to uni (same course same uni , same circle of friends really though hes closer to them than I am), and he started off ok, he could be around me but still a bit off with me (not really talking very much) but now he cant even be in the same room as me, he goes out of his way to avoid me - even though i dont really go out of my way to be near him.
    Hes blocked me on fb chat because I asked him via there if we could possibly meet up fpr a chat to see whee we stand...try and amke things better for us in the long run (next 4 years at uni) he basically refused. so I didnt push the subject, but sent him a polite message yesterday saying I'd like to talk- very short and to the point. This is the last direct contact I will hae with him - I know hes read it an ignoring it. I've troed to be friendly... hes on his own now
    I just dont understand why he's the one ignoring me! surely it should be the otherway round?
    thanks

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    Perhaps he's still trying to get over you? cutting contacts is one way to do this . . . how long was the relationship?
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    well we knew one another for about 8 onths before getting together, then the relationship (offically) was about a year. Though he told me he'd fallen out of love with me a few months before he broke up with me... so why would he be still trying to get over me?
    (thanks for relying btw ) x

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    "he'd fallen out of love with me a few months before he broke up with me... so why would he be still trying to get over me?"

    Well you're a reminder of the relationship . . . there was a time when he did love you, but not he doesn't . . . it is probably just awkward and because it's awkward he is ignoring you.
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