I've been seeing a girl for the last several months, we get along great and have become very close, even having gone a few weekend trips and hangout several times a week (all most everynight), neither of us have dated others during this time until know. I've brought up our relationship status before and she has said that she wants to keep it open but she wasnt dating anyone else, I told her that was fine but we probably should get some space between us since I didn't want to become anymore emotional attached to her, she didnt really like that and in the end nothing changed, she continued to not date anyone else and we kept hanging out the same amount since it just seemed liek she was saying somethign to herself to protect herself from maybe getting to attached to me? Anyways, she told me she had plans tonight and I asked with who and she said someone who came into her store asked her if she wanted to go out and see some music and she said yes. Upon hearing this i told her that we def need to get some distance between us because its clear we want two different things, her to date around, me a relationship. She told me that wasnt the case and she wasn't viewing this as a date but just going out with someone, I explained that is what a date is, she in the end agreed but wasnt looking at it like that . Anyways she claims she likes where we are at and headed but all of a sudden is actually going out on a date with some other person (not just out with a friend but a stranger she just met).
Do I just cut off everything with her or start dating others as well? I told her I'm not going to be her fallback guy and asked her how would she like it if i went out with another girl, she said she wouldn't like. She def. wants to have her cake and eat it to. I don't get it, am I being played?