Originally Posted by
sodonewithdatin
So was in a relationship, her feelings were changing, I once again fell for the "lets take some time apart" routine, then she broke up with me. I was told that I'm not a bad person, just not ready for everything that was happening in our relationship. After about two weeks I suddenly became the bad guy as she played internet psychologist trying to figure out why I am the way I am. I guess my question, ladies, have you ever dumped a guy, told him he's not a bad person, then completely changed your opinion on him? Was it for legitimate reasons, or just to try and make sense out of things you didn't understand and could no longer talk to him about? Or was it because its easier to just make him out to be the bad guy so you don't have to feel guilty about breaking his heart and questioning your own judgement?