Well I started seeing this girl, everything had been going great until two days ago. We went on a little weekend vacation together and stayed at a beach together. The first day was great, but the second day I had gotten really sick and was not really able to get out of bed. She seemed like she was somewhat angry with me, but I didn't want to bring up any negativity since we were on a weekend getaway.
Here's a background story on the girl. Her and I go way wayy back. We were really good friends as teenagers and just recently reconnected. We have been hooking up and going on dates the past few weeks.
Every time she is with me she has a blast, and she is always looking forward to the next time we're together.. There are always positive vibes, we don't talk about past relationships, bad moods, any of that. Most of the time I'm joking around teasing her and she loves it. However I feel that next time we're together she might pull the old "This isn't working out" card after this past weekend.
Lately I have really been trying to not focus so much on setting a goal to build a relationship, but rather letting it happen naturally just through having a great fun time with the girl.
I would rather not go the "Talk my emotions out with her" route since we have just been casually dating/hooking up and I do not want to come off as clingy, because I'm not. I have my own life, my own goals, and my own aspirations.
I just want to maintain positive relations with her and do not want to be that guy who she has to make an excuse to not go out with for the night.
Maybe I'm just over-analyzing this situation and we both just had one bad day. But do any ladies have any advice to offer?