Originally Posted by
lovebug411
Obviously there is no rush since it's been 6 yrs but the thought and security of one day we will be married is all I want. At first we didn't discuss marriage because it was way too soon. Not until the 3-4 yr we talked about it. He's always been anti- marriage and I was hoping that would change after a while. His main reason is he say he wants to be financially stabled before he gets married, which is great because I want the same. He wants to be able to take care of a family. And that's what i Love about him because he thinks smart. He just thinks marriage changes ppl. And i dont think it would since ive been with him so long and we are practically living a married couples life. This is me and im not changing. I just want a commitment. He tells me he loves me and he would love to have kids with me but he dont want the marriage. I really disagree. If im good enough to have his child why am i not good enough to be his wife??We don't have any children and our house is under my name so it's not like the house is holding him back. We have a great sex life and we are honestly a very happy boyfriend and girlfriend couple. I just don't understand what the problem is.