Hi, i dated someone for a month and a half, we got along extremely well, spent a lot of time together and had chats which were leading to a suggestion we were on the right track.
Then out of the blue, he suddenly decided he is not ready for a relationship. This was apparently not because of me but because of his need to focus on himself....we'd spent way too much time together, he needed to refocus on work after it had gone badly and he'd fallen sick, partly out of exhaustion. Looking at his state when we broke up, i think he was being truthful.
He was desperate to be friends so i said fine. I have been making an effort, sending a text every two weeks or so but i send one, he replies instantly asking how i am, i reply ask a question or two and then silence.
I find this weird given he used to text ten times a day and now cant gather the energy to send more than one text. Its just a bit rude.
How should i read this whole thing? Or am i lacking rationality?