Long story as short as I can:
I was a cop in a middle of nowhere, podunk town. I met a girl there who was a volunteer where I worked. She was the fuk buddy of my roomate/friend/fellow officer. He used her, jerked her around and called her a "psycho" because she wanted to actually have a relationship with him.
Her and I always got along. She did try to use me a bit, ie texting me and asking where my roomate was (often when she couldn't get a hold of him because he was hooking up with some other chick).
So we kissed, cuddled and went jogging together, while he was at work once...but she still had strong feelings for him so I took a step back and started a relationship with the paramedic (who became my girlfriend).
Well, I am single now and so is she. My old roomate totally broke it off with her, he moved to another county to work for a another department.
She visited me on Thanksgiving, she wanted too so she drove an hour and a half to come here, she brought her friend (girl) with her. It was cool, I looked like a pimp. lol j/k
Anyways, she 's driving down here again to come and see a movie on thursday. Only little kicker is...she is bringing her friend (girl) with her because she "doesn't drive alone"
It should be noted, she was viciously attacked by a rapist six months ago and she really does not drive out of her hometown alone. I caught the guy who did it to her.
See, I am going to hold her hand, hug her, etc. thats not the issue. Her friend is going to be there and I have manners so I feel a bit hesitant about doing that stuff when her friend is around.
Only thing is, I am not just a friend and I certainly won't let things stay that way.
What are your thoughts on this?
Would it be rude if I did a few things with her?
Or..maybe just be patient, make her laugh, have a good time, continue to pursue her and save the physical stuff for our next date when I drive up to see her?
Thanks, by the way, she is sweet, kind, pretty girl and I could really see myself falling for her.
Please respond I want to know your views on this!