Originally Posted by
yelenaa
he just came out of a 5 year long relationship in October, so he was saying he was not looking for a relationship, or at least not right away. I immediately explained that then we can't be intimate and it stopped. He still called every day, and was interested in my life and whatnot. If it was just a **** buddy situation why the hell would he call so much.
Girls are dumb.. throw rocks at them.. anyway.. After 5 years of having sex, and after a couple of months of missing that sex.. he found someone he wanted to have sex with.. that person was you.. in case you missed that.. your words flew over his head.. in one ear.. out the other.. and he continued to call you.. because he just wanted sex.. So, BECAUSE it was just a **** buddy situation.. that's why he called you so much.. I know, it's hard to pull away from your point of view.. but in male-land.. that's what happened.. If you believed otherwise.. did you bother asking yourself.. "Why would he want to be with me exactly? Why? Besides the sex.. what other reason?"
Originally Posted by
yelenaa
Once my friend even brought it up to him how I cried one time (i really didn't but we wanted to see if he would react to it if he heard i did cry- two can play the game) and he ended up being "more honest" (at least i thought he was) and was saying things how he cares and all that other junk that i believed (stupid me).
Congrats.. I hope you've learned your lesson, on how retarded and pointless girly-games are.. they get you nowhere.. and do nothing.. You and your friend thought you were being smart by trying to pull a fast one.. painted this drama situation.. and he just fed into it.. told you what you wanted to hear so you could feel better.. Now that you think about it.. again.. you hopefully realize exactly how dumb and pointless this was on your part.. (not to mention.. guys don't like drama-wh0res.. they hate girls that pack drama.. good job in killing any attraction or potential interest he may have had in you)
Originally Posted by
yelenaa
Oh and remember how when I told him we can just be friends and when we stopped the intimacy, well he wouldn't stop bringing up the FRIEND word all the time in every sentence, emphasising on it as if he didn't like that we are JUST friends. he would say stuff like, how r u doing FRIEND, are you ok FRIEND, did u sleep well my FRIEND? i hope you guys can visualize that emphasis.
Again, that's just him missing the sex.. wow.. you sure know how to pick em'.. Feeling hostile towards you for taking away the sex.. pathetic on his part.. Obviously.. this got him nowhere.. it means nothing.. don't pay any attention to it.. because zero thought went into it..
Originally Posted by
yelenaa
After we all went to a club where he semi ignored me, even though he was always there, bought me drinks and communicated but kept his distance due to the fact i was a bitch prior to the club. But i had my reasons, which he knew of and wasn't really addressing them.
Yeah.. do you know why? Because he doesn't care.. he honestly could care less.. Again, drama gets you NOWHERE.. and you've seen that over, and over, and over, and over..., and over..., again.. So he wasn't about to address them.. because he could care less.. he was just waiting for you to get over them.. and if not.. he was just going to look elsewhere for either (1) sex, (2) a relationship with someone who packs less drama, or (3) Both 1 & 2.. It's really that simple.. No need to make it more complicated than what it really is.. That's all that's going on.. And you pretty much messed up.. and are messing up as you're reading this by holding & putting up this long face and "i'm ignoring you, not talking to you, i'm angry at you" attitude.. coupled with your burning desire to make him want to say "sorry" for everything that happened.. because "it's all his fault".. And that's right! You guessed it! Where's that going to take you?
Nowhere..
Best,
GrkScorp
Last edited by GrkScorp; 31-03-08 at 03:08 PM.
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