i was in a relationship with a guy for over a year. he lives in another state so we mainly sustained our r/s through phone calls. it went alright till about 2 months ago when he started getting sensitive, misinterpreted every word i said. made me all depressed and it's starting to affect my life, mood and work cos we used to talk every night.
so we decided to take time out, to help each other regain some sanity and chase the blues away. so we cut back on the phone calls. subsequently we talked about it and agreed that it's better we remain as friends, cos it's draining and just aint working. later he sent me a text saying something to that effect, that he wasn't ready for r/s.
then recently he started to ring me up. that went for a couple more times. it's starting to cause the sleepless nights again.