Hey all! I'm hoping someone can enlighten me on my issue here.
I'm 24 yr old female and I've been in my relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years.
When we first started going out, I was easily turned on and the sex was good. Although throughout the years I've only been ate out 8 times cause I HATE it (never have liked it with previous boyfriends too), fingering just leaves me numb down there.
For the last year it's DYING! I can't get turned on anymore AT ALL! It's not my boyfriend either, he's sexy as hell, when I look at him I REALLY looooove what I see same with his down below especially! But when he touches me to get me in the mood, I don't like it at all. Not saying I don't like him touching me, I love it when we cuddle ect, but when I know he wants to have sex or fool around I cringe at the touch and I feel trapped like someone is molesting me!....... We've had to resort to me using my vibrator to get me turned on, then I'm "okay" from then, never really turned on though.Sometimes I just endure sex and fake it so he can get something!
I feel absolutely horrid for being impotent and my poor guy thinks he sucks in bed that he can't turn on his own girlfriend. I've cried so many times. I even started to think it's him, but the more I think about it the less I think it's him, I think it's me.
I don't get this part though, when I look at him in the shower ect. I get turned on and want to have sex, but then as soon as I go over and we start touching I'm not horny anymore.
I'm not on birth control or any pills that would decrease my sex drive either.
Anyone else had this problem?