Met this guy, thought he was too nice, so kinda avoided him, however turns out he is a nice guy buy he's also really shy, not many friends, a bit of a loner etc. We got to hanging out a bit, he's kinda busy with work this time of year. I wasn't sure he liked me as more than a friend till one night, we were sitting watching tv at mine, and he said something complimentary and stole a kiss on my cheek! It was a strange experience, I felt like a 12 yr old getting my first kiss! Anyway we're calling/texting a lot, quite equal in who's initiating then, so a few months go by, and we get to having a kiss, it was a bit weird, because it was more like lots of little pecks than a proper smooch? So some more time passes, we get to having sex! This was initiated by me but he didn't say no. Another strange experience for me, I've slept with a couple other guys before but nothing like this, no foreplay, he just got on with it, didn't really touch me either, where as anything before, then the guys hands have been everywhere. His inexperience perhaps? So next time we do it, much better, more relaxed, he still does not seem to want to touch me, but we go ahead, afterwards we manage to have a laugh and he tickles my feet etc, we have a cuddle etc, a drink and a chat, big hug and big kiss before he goes.
So to now, sorry its taken a while to get to this, but I wanted to give you some info first. Anyway, I asked him if he'd like to go out somewhere for the day, he said that would be good and I asked him to get back to me when he was free. He didn't mention it again, so he's now texting a lot less, but still replies to me and we text for a while, so when he replies all seems ok, however although he's replying to me he's not calling or texting me first. It's been 4 weeks since I've seen him and this is our last text convo, so wondered if you could read, give me your thoughts and advice, thanks
Me - hey, handsome hows you, been up to anything exciting today?
him - hey u,am doing ok thanks, jus had a nice relaxing day out, how was your day?
Me - where you go to? had a pretty relaxed one too, might go out for a run later
Him - Went over the glen, a run in the motor I take it?
Me - Am certainly no going jogging, of course in motor, you fancy a wee jaunt out somewhere?
Him - Gonna watch the motorcycling on tv, thanks for the offer tho. X
Me - No worries, you still up for a day out?
Him - Yes, that'd be good
Him - (2.5 hrs later at 10.15pm) Hey, where did your run take you to then, what you up to now?
Me - Took the dog up the forest, right now am thinking about cleaning
Him - Cleaning what?
Me - Housework kinda cleaning
Him - Don't worry about that, I'll turn a blind eye to it!!
Me - Haha, I got a pair rubber gloves about your size.
So since then I've heard nothing, been almost a week. So what's going on with him, do you think he is still interested? Am I doing/saying something wrong, what should I do now, I'm determined not to initaiate contact, but it's hard because I know if I did he'd reply, please, your thoughts, advice, thanks
I am shy also and I know I probably should just ask him, but I really don't think I can.