I've been dating this guy for 2 years now. We just recently broke up on my terms. He admitted to cheating on me twice. Once during the 1st week we were dating ( which wasn't completely established yet ) and right before we had a break after our 1st year.
I was quite irritated with him and finding out he cheated on me. The time of the 'cheating' may not be really considered as cheating, some people say. Also, our relationship was in desperate need of a break. I was much to enveloped in him and he was much too comfortable with the relationship that he did not respect me. We were both unhappy.
I just got off the phone with him and he apologized, realized how horrible he had treated me and how happy he was now being able to really appreciate me. He does not want to get back together quite yet. He also told me that he has no interest in any other girls but me. He told me how 2 girls offered to drive to see him and pay for the hotel room but he declined.
I'd like to know if I should get back together with him at all. I love him still and I think that many of our problems have been fixed, or we realize the problems we had.
What would you do???