Originally Posted by
littlesampan
for a wierd thing, i was so clear in my mind i needed to break up with him for the two reasons: the race and money issues, however, now that i am back with him in the same country, my heart has completely gone soft again, and i dunno whether breaking up with him is the right thing to do for myself, or is it something i just feel could be the right thing to do to make others happy? so confused.. and i dunno how to tell him as well how confused i am. please help me think through this... cos i have noone to turn to who may be able to relate to my situation... thank you very much for reading this thread!
Parents play a very important part in any relationship, if they are not onaboard things can become rather difficult. It's hard to choose either way. You will have to find some sort of a middle ground between two choices I think. Use your charm and skills of persuasion to arrange a meeting between them. Maybe after they meet him and see those qualities that made you love him they will change their opinion.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~