Hey guys,
I just need some help here, well i work with this guy, and he was flirting with me and eventually i developed some feelings for him and then i found out he actually has a gf but it was too late, i was so into him already. i confronted him and he told me the truth and told me he was desperate and blah blah...So i decided to end it and it was hard.
Problem is now he still somehow tries to talk to me, jokes around with me and even flirts!, I feel like he has no respect for me and so inconsiderate about my feelings. Well i ignored him, and tried to avoid talking to him or make any eye contacts. But i don't think he really got the point that i don't want to be his friend, yes i still like him and it hurts to just be friend with a guy you like after he used you., so i think thats the best way for me to get over him.
Question is: What is the best way to do or best things to say so he gets the point? cos when he talks to me, if i don't reply or be friendly, people at work will get suspicious and think i'm being a total bitch to him, and i don't want to be seen as that type pf person cos i get along with everyone at work. At the same time, i honestly don't want to talk to him if not necessary. How can i do this in a MATURE way? i still want to look professionally.