Where do you see yourself in 10 years time?

[WiltedRose]

I'll go first well in ten years I will most likely be a grandma haha and I'd have found someone that loves me like I do him after he accepts me and my package as his own and then we'll live happily ever after and also have a different career I just don't know what yet prob a life coach haha

[TheEvilJester]

I could go with the super depressing answer that I'm thinking.... but I'll resist the urge. LOL! So, the real answer is I don't know. I've actually always had a problem coming up with answers to those kind of questions. "Where do you see yourself in 5 years.... 10 years.... 20 billion years?" The reason is, I don't like to limit myself. That's a common question in the work world. "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?" Honestly.... I don't know. And that's NOT because I don't have ambition, nor is it because I don't have focus. Quite the opposite, in fact. It's because I like to leave myself open to all possibilities. I never know where a year, or 5, or 10 will take me. So, I'd rather keep my eyes open to whatever may be possible rather than limit myself to one specific vision.

As for in general life... I'm sure I will probably still be alone. I hope, though, that I will have at least finally come to a place of fully accepting that. I'm doing much better with that lately, but it feels like there will always be part of me who wants better than that. But, hopefully I can find peace in that. Hopefully in 10 years, I'm still dressing up as Deadpool to go to comic cons and horror cons and stuff like that. As nerdy as it may sound (and I'm a HUGE nerd for sure, LOL), it actually brings me such joy for reasons I can't even really explain. It's like finding a place I fit in when I never fit in before in my life. So, I hope I never lose the child-like joy I have in doing that.

Above all, I'm open to whatever life brings. I've not had the greatest, happiest life, so I've learned to enjoy the good times when they do come. It's a struggle, but certainly one worth the fight.

[pcmaster]

Nice so you see yourself happy Rose.

And you Jester see yourself as a deadpool but in his without girlfriend stage. That might happen if you jerk off one more time. What are your long term plans Jester for next years?

In 10 years I see myself as a millionaire and confident guy. Someone who picks poor girls and gives them better life and in return they hug me and give peck on a cheek.
I see myself as someone who can buy love and relationship if he wants to. A someones who can change not just his own life but also other people life and destiny.

[topazlight]

In ten years I would certainly wish to be long time married and with at least one if not two children, a cute little dog, a cat and a job I can do from home or at least has very limited travel so I can spend with my family. Would also like to have a good amount of money nested away in our bank accounts too and still have my parents happy and healthy. Maybe remodeling some old house in the countryside too.

[TheEvilJester]

And you Jester see yourself as a deadpool but in his without girlfriend stage. That might happen if you jerk off one more time. What are your long term plans Jester for next years?

Well,
To be fair, I've never shared whether or not I do that at all as I don't think it is anybody's business whether I do or not. That's the sort of thing where you are kinda damned if you do, damned if you don't. If you do it and feel the need to share that with people, that is gross/weird. Yet, since basically everybody does it these days, it is almost just as weird if not weirder to admit you don't. (I'm not saying that's my personal opinion, I'm saying that seems to be the popular opinion of other people from my experience.) So, I choose to personally plead the 5th on that one. Really nobody's business what I do or don't do in that regard.

....But, I will just say that I respectfully disagree with you that the two have any direct correlation. There are plenty of people who do that AND have a girlfriend/boyfriend. There are plenty of people who DON'T do that and yet still don't have a relationship. And then the inverse of both is true as well. The two are not necessarily related. Sure, they CAN be. If you are addicted to, what did you call it? PMO? If you are addicted that certainly CAN have many negative effects. That's for sure. Being addicted to anything can. It is like many things in life. Moderation.

[pcmaster]

Well those who do it in relationship ussualy ruins their relationship and report that it gets better after they stop. Recently read a story where guy didnt had sex with his wife for 6 years, then he stoped M for two months and things with wife improved and they eventualy had sex. Sure this is extreme case but you got the point. Also a lot of guys around 20 years of age stop m for month or two and report losing their virginity and having a girlfriends. Sure this is not a case with us since it would take much longer than few months to achieve that at age closer to 30.

Bruce Lee for example didnt jerk off and thats why he was so advanced in martial arts, they even teached them how not to have a wet dreams what takes a lot of time to learn because its in your subconscious mind. But there are few simple ways how to avoid wet dreams too.
I mean a lot can be achieved when focusing energy. But ejaculation whether its M or sex just is such a huge waste of energy. I want to learn tantric sex to not ejaculate.

[shosh]

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