Hello all,

So I am living in Germany now, and I have met this woman here previously a few years ago.

Long story-short I had to leave Germany back to the U.S. and since then have returned with a new job and apartment here.

During my time away this woman (whom I really fancy, and she fancies me.) has been with another man, living with him and she has worked several jobs but she is not happy in her work life (most likely her love life either.)

Because of this she contacts me from time to time and I want to try and pull her away from this guy who has bad influence over her life.

She continues to choose the same outcomes, even though she has wanted to go back to her University to complete her degree.

Ladies,

What can I do to win her over and get her away from this other dude?

She seems to always lean on him as a crutch for financial stability, without providing her own.

I believe she lacks a lot of self-confidence.

Please help!

Thanks in advance.