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    I'm hurt by bf's actions...

    My boyfriend and I work in the same building, on different floors, and there are over 1000 employees in the building. He had a relationship over a year ago with another woman that works here. He's told me of how he loved her, but that it is over. My problem comes in like this: he doesn't want to hold hands, and I just mean in the parking lot. Yet he told me he used to do that with his ex, and it made him feel SO good to be holding hands with this beautiful woman beside him. He was exceedingly proud to be seen with her. With me, he says it makes him feel uncomfortable. Does anyone have any advice? Or should I just suck it in and not say anything?

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    How about moving this to the "Dating" section?
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    Quote Originally Posted by just_me
    He had a relationship over a year ago with another woman that works here. He's told me of how he loved her, but that it is over.
    Maybe it's over, but he's not over it.

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    Mrs. TAVS is that you?????

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tone
    Mrs. TAVS is that you?????
    That's funny. As you know, we now work for different companies. But guess what; I had a good job interview yesterday and to my surprise the company I interviewed with is directly upstars from my girlfriend's new company.
    "Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis

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    LOL what are the odds..

    Well that wouldn't be AS bad... at least you wouldn't be working side by side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lloyd95
    How about moving this to the "Dating" section?

    We live together.....we aren't 'just' dating.

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    Quote Originally Posted by just_me
    We live together.....we aren't 'just' dating.
    Thanks for that. But you posted in "Off Topic", which stands for "off the topic of love, or any of the above listed categories."
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    dump him.
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    wait, you live with him?

    ah, dump him anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by just_me
    We live together.....we aren't 'just' dating.
    We dont care; this post does not belong in this section. This is A Love Forum....Off Topic does not include Love.
    "Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis

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    you guys leave this person alone. geez.

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    Forget it TAVS, it's a very confusing issue, apparently, for her. She must be blonde
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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra
    you guys leave this person alone. geez.
    We would have if she had not tried to defender herself with flawed logic.
    "Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis

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    you guys think "show me a pic" is perfect logic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra
    you guys think "show me a pic" is perfect logic.
    Ok Smarty-pants, explain how "show me a pic" is flawed logic?
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