Trapped, angry, jelouse, confuzed?

[Matt 0.0]

Hi everyone i have a problem which needs sorting soon. I have a great girlfriend we love each other very much we have been seeing each other for a year and a half but she is the first Seriouse relationship i have ever had she is the only girl i have slept with. I on the other hand am one of the many guys that she has slept with. She has not cheated on me it's her relationships before me.

Although I love her very much but I get very angry every time i think about the amount of guys shes slept with and had relationships with and my lack of "playing the field". Ive spoken to her about it and we dont know what to do but split up but nither of us want that . She wants me to move in with her in a couple months and i dont want to move in whilst feeling like this.

Im really beating myself up about this please help... Im scared that it will end in many tears

[kemmy]

It doesn't have to end in many tears.
First thing you must realise is that if she had not opened up to you about her past you probably would not know that much about her..... so I think maturity is what you need. You should not have listened when you knew you couldn't handle your "discoveries." Since she's not cheating on you that is an indication that she's not a flirt just that she fell victim of wrong relationships in the past! If you leave her now you will have succeeded in adding your name to the list. If you have to say goodbye let it be for a good reason.
Love is about sacrifice, true love will always go the extra mile
Having said that I don't believe in sex before marriage, you can keep yourselves.... God says "no sex before marriage," He's got to be right
Besides AIDS is real, be wise!

[Gigabitch]

I do believe in sex before marriage, for the record.

One of my best friends is married to a man who has only ever been with her, while she was with five others brfore him. They have been together for a very long time, and he isn't jealous, because he was more interested in her future than her past.

You must learn to look beyond your insecurities if you want to have good relationships. I imagine you would find something to be upset by even if she were a virgin.

[Tone]

The past is the past, nothing you can do about it.

If you want to have a future with her though, you have to learn to look past her prior relationships.