I'm confused to hell

[SWLR]

My Ex-Girlfriend is getting jelous of me talking to other girls.
She comes online and goes crazy at me telling me how much I'm hurting her.

She broke up with me about six weeks ago. We were together just over a year. My story is in the broken hearts thread if your interested.

She won't tell me how shes feeling, I've tried asked her.
She didn't make a clean break from me, she left me hanging on.. and I feel I still am because of the things she sometimes says.

I'm trying to move on but she's stopping me. Am I doing anything wrong? Should I try to move on or just wait for her?

She invited me to a gig at the week-end, she suggested it would be easier for us to talk in a crowd. I declined her invitation, I told her I'm not ready to face her.

Hold on? Move on? What do I do. I still have strong feelings for her

When I say talking to other girls, I mean just talking. I'm not dating them or anything

Thanks. Love you all

[vashti]

If you guys are broken up, then you should be practicing no-contact until your feelings for her are gone. Tell her to quit contacting you unless she wants to reconcile, and then only allow her to contact you if YOU want to reconcile.

[Cybog]

Why have you not blocked her from whatever "online" site or PM you are using?

Do not talk to her.

Do not respond to her emails.

Do not answer her phone calls.

Do not go to places where she is going to be.

The two of you are FINISHED - and even in Junior High terms that means FINISHED.

If you keep talking to her and letting her contact you, this bullshit will keep going on. It really isn't that difficult.

Move on with your life and ignore whatever she is saying. Forever.