Falling for my friend's online pal

[Dondon_Haha]

My friend has been pretty active on the online dating scene. One time when he was asked to travel for work in some remote province with no internet connection, he asked me to sign in using his account to get things going with this girl he was chatting with in the US. I obliged thinking, How hard is this going to be? I'll just say Hi, Hello, etc. So I log in to his account at itzamatch.com and indeed a message was there from the girl. We chatted, and chatted some more and now I realize that I really really like her! She's just funny, free-spirited and is willing to come to Manila to meet up with "my friend." She notices something different with how her "online pal" is chatting and that this is the reason why she's really thinking of coming over for a long vacation. My friend is due to arrive this Sunday already and I have no friggin idea what to do. I might hurt his feelings and make him feel betrayed or I just might tell him straight out that she's more interested in me than in him.

I don't know. These things between guys makes for the most awkward situations.
What do you think I should do?

[Mathias]

hahahahahahahahahaha.

Sorry.

hahahahahahahahahaha.






Whew.


Anyway, you need to step out. That's pretty low if you're really thinking of taking this girl from him.

[fixbayonets]

Ive been in this situation before. If you value your friendship even a little bit, I am here to tell you: STOP TALKING TO THIS GIRL. Dont cut back, STOP. I garuntee that if you keep this up, you and your friend's relationship will go straight to Hell. Probably not what you wanted to hear, but thats what needs to happen.

[Kiechi]

My friend has been pretty active on the online dating scene. One time when he was asked to travel for work in some remote province with no internet connection, he asked me to sign in using his account to get things going with this girl he was chatting with in the US. I obliged thinking, How hard is this going to be? I'll just say Hi, Hello, etc. So I log in to his account at itzamatch.com and indeed a message was there from the girl. We chatted, and chatted some more and now I realize that I really really like her! She's just funny, free-spirited and is willing to come to Manila to meet up with "my friend." She notices something different with how her "online pal" is chatting and that this is the reason why she's really thinking of coming over for a long vacation. My friend is due to arrive this Sunday already and I have no friggin idea what to do. I might hurt his feelings and make him feel betrayed or I just might tell him straight out that she's more interested in me than in him.

I don't know. These things between guys makes for the most awkward situations.
What do you think I should do?

Damn you Filipinos. ONLINE DATING IS BAD.

[King Zarathu]

Damn you Filipinos. ONLINE DATING IS BAD.

Vashti is going to ask you how you know he's Filipino.

[Kiechi]

My friend has been pretty active on the online dating scene. One time when he was asked to travel for work in some remote province with no internet connection, he asked me to sign in using his account to get things going with this girl he was chatting with in the US. I obliged thinking, How hard is this going to be? I'll just say Hi, Hello, etc. So I log in to his account at itzamatch.com and indeed a message was there from the girl. We chatted, and chatted some more and now I realize that I really really like her! She's just funny, free-spirited and is willing to come to Manila to meet up with "my friend." She notices something different with how her "online pal" is chatting and that this is the reason why she's really thinking of coming over for a long vacation. My friend is due to arrive this Sunday already and I have no friggin idea what to do. I might hurt his feelings and make him feel betrayed or I just might tell him straight out that she's more interested in me than in him.

I don't know. These things between guys makes for the most awkward situations.
What do you think I should do?

You mentioned Vashti again?! Methinks you laik her.

[King Zarathu]

Oh! I thought you got it from his hostmask and IP, hence the reference to vashti.

[Kiechi]

Oh! I thought you got it from his hostmask and IP, hence the reference to vashti.

****y sucky 5 dollar.

[King Zarathu]

****y sucky 5 dollar.

Vashti, or the Filipino?

Just kidding. Both.

[vashti]

My friend has been pretty active on the online dating scene. One time when he was asked to travel for work in some remote province with no internet connection, he asked me to sign in using his account to get things going with this girl he was chatting with in the US. I obliged thinking, How hard is this going to be? I'll just say Hi, Hello, etc. So I log in to his account at itzamatch.com and indeed a message was there from the girl. We chatted, and chatted some more and now I realize that I really really like her! She's just funny, free-spirited and is willing to come to Manila to meet up with "my friend." She notices something different with how her "online pal" is chatting and that this is the reason why she's really thinking of coming over for a long vacation. My friend is due to arrive this Sunday already and I have no friggin idea what to do. I might hurt his feelings and make him feel betrayed or I just might tell him straight out that she's more interested in me than in him.

I don't know. These things between guys makes for the most awkward situations.
What do you think I should do?

Why would I ask something so obvious?

[Kiechi]

Vashti, or the Filipino?

Just kidding. Both.

I meant you big boy.

[King Zarathu]

Kill yourself.

[Kiechi]

Kill yourself.

Me luv u lon taim.

[Dondon_Haha]

Ive been in this situation before. If you value your friendship even a little bit, I am here to tell you: STOP TALKING TO THIS GIRL. Dont cut back, STOP. I garuntee that if you keep this up, you and your friend's relationship will go straight to Hell. Probably not what you wanted to hear, but thats what needs to happen.

Well, he came back and I just told him straight out what happened. He didn't get mad at me. After all, he was the one who suggested it. He went and told the girl the truth too. They just laughed it off, I guess. As for me, I found another interesting girl at itzamatch so at least I'm out of their way. All's well that ends well!

Thanks!

[Gigabitch]

Lesson learned? Hard to tell.