Dumped - What are her thoughts?

[theguy]

Hi, in case you all are wondering, me and all of my buddies use the same username, so if are past problems dont match up with our present ones, thats why.

There this girl that has broken up with me, she says that she sees us together again later but not now(im thinking, when she comes back im not gonna be here)

anyway. I treated this girl like a princess, because it seemed to me that she had had a very rough life. I tried to make her feel special all the time, especially in the occassions where she wasnt expecting it. Whether it was leaving her her favroite snack on the seat of her car abd being nowhere in sight. Or leaving flower entangled in her car door handle, every so often. Or maybe those surprise visits where I would take her shopping, and let herself run free in the store for a day.

I know the saying nice guys finish last, but this wasnt pathetic nice, this was normal, not over the edge.

Anyway, so eventually she is going to miss me dont you think? It may be just to feed my ego, (some sort of self satisfaction) or maybe its because I know I truly do love her and would want her back someday (even though if she wants to leave Im not just going to sit around) I just want to know what a girl thinks, do they regret not staying with that guy that made them feel more special than ever?

[anachronistic]

this woman doesn't deserve your attention. stop treating her like a princess.

save all that special treatment for a girl who deserves it. you seem like a nice guy, you shouldn't have to wait around for her. i know a handful of women who would actually appreciate that kind of treatment!