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Thread: I've hurt him and it's all my fault.

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    I've hurt him and it's all my fault.

    Here it gose I have been going to dinner with a guy called Adam for ages. I knew now for a couple of mouths that he has feelings for me we had just haven't got together yet. But on Friday we had my works x mas doo but he didn't come so anyway it was all going well until I ended up kissing some guy and now Adam is upset with me and we are not talking.

    What should I do?

    I didn't really notice how much I liked him until this happened now I feel like a *****.
    Life is like a dick. When things get hard, **** it.


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    Call him up and tell him you think you've hurt him and you're sorry. It's good to be direct about these things.
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    Yep, admit you've made a mistake. Be humble, ask for forgiveness if you did hurt him, and try to repair the damage by proving he can trust you again.
    The way of love is not a subtle argument.
    The door there is devastation.
    Birds make great sky-circles of their freedom.
    How do they learn it?
    They fall, and falling, they're given wings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    Call him up and tell him you think you've hurt him and you're sorry. It's good to be direct about these things.
    Tried that he didn't want to talk to me.

    Quote Originally Posted by celestialxs View Post
    Yep, admit you've made a mistake. Be humble, ask for forgiveness if you did hurt him, and try to repair the damage by proving he can trust you again.
    yes i think your right
    Life is like a dick. When things get hard, **** it.


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    I would feel hurt if I was him too but it should be a reminder he should commit to a relationship instead of just want you to be his without making it official. Thats a guys scapegoat. Make sure he knows that you were a little confused that you were dating and he never seemed to want to take it further. Remember 'dating' does not mean the same as 'going steady with one person,' 'dating' means getting to know different people to find someone youre compatible with

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    Quote Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose View Post
    I would feel hurt if I was him too but it should be a reminder he should commit to a relationship instead of just want you to be his without making it official. Thats a guys scapegoat. Make sure he knows that you were a little confused that you were dating and he never seemed to want to take it further. Remember 'dating' does not mean the same as 'going steady with one person,' 'dating' means getting to know different people to find someone youre compatible with
    Yes i think your right thanks
    Life is like a dick. When things get hard, **** it.


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