need to vent! advice needed

[Mr.Karl]

Hello all.. Ive been reading here for awhile.. its my first post.. here we go

So I dated this girl for roughly a year and we recently split up. And a week later.. she has a new boyfriend. That’s perfectly fine I dont mind. However.. I feel sort of angry. And here is why:

during our relationship this guy hounded her.. wouldnt take no for an anwser.. asked her for casual sex WHILE me and the girl were still dating. She said no. So he asked her about all her friends. She never set any real boundaries with this fellow. So he basically said what he wanted to her.

I asked her a couple times whether or not she liked this dude. She always said no. But whenever we were in a fight.. she'd go "crying" to him.

Now heres the thing. I feel like I was lied to. And its left me bitter. Also.. A MAJOR reason we broke up was because she was super jealous and always worried I’d cheat on her. She questioned and investigated EVERYTHING.

I'm an honest guy.. Ive never cheated on anyone.. Ive never had a one night stand.. ive never asked anyone for casual sex. I'm pissed she couldnt bring herself to trust me.. and that basically caused our break up... and yet she can trust that bum?

I feel like I wanna send her a nasty email totally blasting the guy. But I seriously doubt that’s gonna help anything..

thanks for listening.. Any thoughts/ advice would be helpful

[Gigabitch]

What makes you think she trusts that bum? He's her doormat. Her rebound clown. Her fool.

Let it go, MK. She sounds like a pain in the ass anyway. Who cares who she gets with from now on?

[misombra]

you got played mr. karl. sorry.

[YourThrone]

Don't let her get to you, women are a dime a dozen! go out and find someone else.

[discombobulated]

The one who accuses the other of being unfaithful is usually the guilty party.

[Gigabitch]

The one who accuses the other of being unfaithful is usually the guilty party.

What the **** kind of logic is that, I ask you? You have to be more responsible about the bullshit you post on here, dis. That is absolute crap.

[Tedel]

I'm an honest guy.. Ive never cheated on anyone.. Ive never had a one night stand.. ive never asked anyone for casual sex. I'm pissed she couldnt bring herself to trust me.. and that basically caused our break up... and yet she can trust that bum?

I think this is what you need to change a little.

Just kidding, don't worry. There is no need to change what you are. If I had been you, anyway, it would have been me who set a few boundaries back there. First with her, then if needed with him. Your story reminds me times in which you could file a complaint against someone for alienation of affection, but, as I see it, that's what happened. You allowed that s.o.b. to steal your girl from you.