How to attract girl in my case? Plz help!

[john85]

Hi!
I'm new here - very nice forum!

So I'm in pretty big frustration. I'll write my story so you can understand better my situation:
I met one girl some time a go. She lives in different town so I can't meet her often. I really liked her, and I think that she also liked me. But I don't have her phone, just email. So I wrote her email with text that "I was in her town (I actually was) and remembered her, so how are you? . . ."
She replied "Nice to hear from you! . . ."
So I send her beck some email - but she didn't reply. Message text wasn't too personal - just how is in collage etc.

I send in time of 4 month some more emails. Then I found out what could cause that she don't reply. Her family has some problems with my relatives(money), so I send email that I don't have any connections to my relatives "what so ever", and asked her to take me separately from them... But no reply.

What should I do now?

TNX

[vashti]

Forget about her. She isn't interested.

Sorry.

[john85]

hmm that wouldn't be nice Are you sure about it? Maybe there is some way how can I notice her about my feeling (and way how to know what she thinks about me)?

[Liisa]

yeah, sorry to say, but this is evident: she is not interested. just find another one!

[mscourvoisier]

if you like her that much.. you should find a way to speak to her in person- if you get the same "not interested impression" then move on. sometimes emails don't do emotions justice, most times i.e., so you can't really tell what's going on.

[Tedel]

Yeah, I agree. She's not interested.
For future girls you like, I'd say forget the idea of writing to them. Talking to them is a lot more... ahem... effective.

[SunRiSer]

im afraid that she doesnt want you.
ignoring mails isnt very good, isnt it..

if you love her, you could take a little risc though..
you've got nothing to lose anyway.
get to her place, talk to her in the face, who knows what happens