Somebody please help me with.
There was a girl in High School that I was very good friends with. We hung out, went to dances together and talked every night. You would have thought we were boyfriend/girlfriend, but I played games and although I think she knew, I never truly told her how I felt. Sadly we drifted apart after high school and I always felt that if I hung in there with her or had at least opened up about my fellings we would have made a couple. As the years have gone by I would still think about her occasionally but would always push her to the back of my mind. So three weeks ago, nearly 15 years after I last talked to this girl, for no apparent reason, the thoughts of her came ROARING back into my mind. She is all I think about now. I can't even sleep at night. Last week I finally had the courage to contact her on myspace. I didnt know what to expect but I got a great response from her and we have been trading emails and talking to her again feels as comfortable as an old pair of jeans. It is the most natural conversation I have ever had with anyone just as it was in High School. The problem is we are now both married, living on opposite ends of the country. I really do love my wife very much and I know she loves her husband. Our conversations have been nothing more than small talk and cathing up on each others lives. But I want to know why now, years later the thoughts and feelings I had for her are rushing back. I feel I am only tormenting myself because I know nothing will come out of this, but yet I dont want to lose whatever relationship we have. Someone please straighten me out.