Revelation!

[Cain]

I've discovered another reason why I don't sleep around.

I like the whole cuddle, hold, etc... thing after sex. Corny, I'm sure, but I do like it.

I look at it this way. There's a girl that I could sleep with right now if I wanted to. And when I'm horny, I'd want to... but... after it's over, since I don't have feelings for her, I'd want to just grab my shit and go. And I don't want to hurt a girl like that. But, the girls that don't mind me doing that are the slutty ones and I don't that.

And that's just on top of the morality aspect.

[Kromat]

I've discovered another reason why I don't sleep around.

I like the whole cuddle, hold, etc... thing after sex. Corny, I'm sure, but I do like it.

I look at it this way. There's a girl that I could sleep with right now if I wanted to. And when I'm horny, I'd want to... but... after it's over, since I don't have feelings for her, I'd want to just grab my shit and go. And I don't want to hurt a girl like that. But, the girls that don't mind me doing that are the slutty ones and I don't that.

And that's just on top of the morality aspect.

Feel the same way you do, R-E-S-P-E-C-T.

[misombra]

but didn't you know all guys are supposed to be whores?

[Cain]

but didn't you know all guys are supposed to be whores?

Eh, I figure if I don't want to date a whore, I shouldn't be a whore either. Maybe one day I won't care as much.

[Cain]

The reasons I don't sleep around are this:

I don't feel like dealing with consequences like STDs, STIs, being accused of rape, and pregnancy, especially for someone that I don't even know, or frankly really even care about.

I usually don't feel the need to satisfy myself like that. Occasionally, I am a very horny, single guy, with horny, single guy feelings though, but I haven't really acted out on them. Every person I have slept with I was in a relationship with, and had some feelings for them, which were much of the motivation... but there has been the occasional completely drunk don't know what your doing making out with chicks, and also the occasional frisky female friend who feels horny at the same time and have a little 'rendezvous' with, but the farthest that's gone is oral sex.

I am not interested in satisfying people I don't care about. Most of the pleasure when I have sex, comes from satisfying the other person. Why would I go that far out of my way, and risk suffering the consequences, to please other people? I am nice enough to hold doors open for people I don't know, and shit like that. If I am really that horny, I'll just toss one off and rub it into a dirty sock or something.

I think the way some of you guys think is just awfully backwards, like your nuts are tangled or something. The way your morals bother you, really makes my scalp itch. So is that what is really holding you back? Not wanting to be a hypocrite or date a whore? I think you read too much into the numbers.

First of all, even if morality was the only thing holding me back, it's my reasoning and just because you don't agree with it doesn't mean my opinion is backwards.

I can read into the numbers as much as I want to. An easy girl does not turn me on. I won't find myself attracted to her. Maybe one day a girl will come along with such an amazing personality that my mind is blown and I feel like the numbers don't matter... but until that time, I can have whatever standards I want.

[DoesntMatter]

I don't sleep around because I can't! But who knows, I'm probably going to a party tonight where the booze will flow like a river and a simple walk through the house will get you a decent high, so maybe some fellow incredibly intoxicated female peer will be horny and nearby

and yes, I gave up my no alcohol / drugs opinion already. Because my mental health is also important

[Cain]

Oh, are you saying I am not allowed to have my own opinion?

Well, here is some thought for you Cain, for what it's worth. If morality is going to be the basis for which you judge things, ironically, that is a bit hypocritical of you, in fact. If you are going to judge like that, then is it wrong for people to judge you with their morals? You might say "Sure it is, anachronistic" but it really isn't; you'd be pissed off if a girl thought you were inexperienced for having slept with the number of people you have. Or maybe if the girl thought you were a moron for having sex before marriage. Or maybe something completely ludicrous that I can't really come up with.

You can have your opinion just like I can have mine. But don't claim that your opinion is the right opinion.

How is me not having sex with every woman I can hypocritical of me? If someone wants to judge me with their morals, fine. If a woman doesn't like the fact that I'm not a virgin, that's her prerogative. I'm not sure how a woman thinking that I'm inexperienced for not being a man whore fits into the morality argument, but whatever.

Go right ahead and read into the numbers all you want. I just think that's a foolish way about doing things. And a bit hypocritical. *shrug*

How is it hypocritical? I don't find it attractive. So what? Should I just not care about the numbers and try to be with a girl that is no longer attractive to me because of the numbers? I'm sorry, but a girl that gave her pussy up so easily just isn't someone that I can look at as being a part of my future.

For example... say my ex decided that she was going to sleep with five guys while we were broken up. I would still love her, but that attraction wouldn't be there. I don't think I'd want to even attempt to be with her again.

[misombra]

oh please you guys face it. you're not sleeping around cause don't nobody want to sleep with you.

[doppelgaenger]

oh please you guys face it. you're not sleeping around cause don't nobody want to sleep with you.

Haaaaahahahaaahaha! This is probably the truth. Who cares why you aren't sleeping around anyway?

[Cain]

Haaaaahahahaaahaha! This is probably the truth. Who cares why you aren't sleeping around anyway?

Who are you and why are you in my thread?

[Cain]

oh please you guys face it. you're not sleeping around cause don't nobody want to sleep with you.

If only my views weren't the way they were.

There's this half black/half white girl that goes to a local university that I've been talking to as friends. I've already got the opportunity, I just don't want to take it... as much as it pains me to say it.

[doppelgaenger]

Who are you and why are you in my thread?

I'm doppelgaenger oh is there an admission for this thread? I snuck in through the back-way.

[michzel creativ]

You know what....... time will come,all the bad things that you have done will return to you.
If ever you'll get in love someday and that girl is much similar to your wrong doings, for sure you'll ask from advice from us.

Maybe you do have a disease as of now.Don't you think?

[starbuck]

LOL, Doppel. You gate crasher, you.

Anyway, what's wrong with Cain having his own dating standards? Everyone's got those "deal-breaker" things in a relationship. And to each his/her own.

I don't think he's being overly "moral". At least not in this thread.

[Cain]

You know what....... time will come,all the bad things that you have done will return to you.
If ever you'll get in love someday and that girl is much similar to your wrong doings, for sure you'll ask from advice from us.

Maybe you do have a disease as of now.Don't you think?

Yeah, I've slept around so much that I'm literally an STD warehouse.

Do you even read the threads before posting your gibberish?