Why is there no communication between us anymore..

[trialqw]

Since highschool, we used to talk a lot and we were seatmates. Even on vacations we would text each other during the long drive... Even in 1st year in college..
Then I stopped txting her for about a year to focus on our studies...

Then 3rd year college, I texted her again, knowing that her birthday is coming though i forgot the exact date so I asked her when XD...

I gave here PSP games because she was kinda bored with her games... I even took the time trying to find a gift for her in which I even had to look in every store in the mall coz I wanted something special for her and so... So we texted again up until early morning. My course in college was nursing while hers was BS Marketing so we were in different buildings but still within the campus. On her birthday, I even went to her fashion show thingy, an event in the campus, because she has a part in it. Had to wait until it was dark despite the number of quizzes nursing students always have...

I think she noticed that I was trying to be more than a friend to her... And so, when I noticed that, by being late in replying to texts, or not even replying at all, or just a simple reply, I gave her her gift and a letter of how I miss her and so, and also about asking her not to avoid me or destroy the friendship and wishing that we would still have communication between us.I gave the gift through her friend and I had to go face to face to her that to get her gift from her friend, which was late because time is really a special thing for pre-med students.

After I gave her gift, I texted that there was a letter in there and if the gift fit her...
And the reply was 6 "Thank you's"

Now she wont reply anymore to my mesages... So now I just text a quote and a gnyt or gmornin with her name... Stil no replys...

I'd never thought that she would react this way because in highschool I know that she is uhm a "good" girl....

She has never had a boyfriend not even once, doesnt drink alcoholic drinks, no smoking, but she does go in gimmicks or outings at night in a bar to dance with friends, no crushes except that actor in TV lol... I asked her and even her bestfriends and so...

Why break the friendship/communication? Now I feel that I don't want to meet her personally anymore but I feel that I love her and willing to wait until she graduates or so.... I wonder if I am reaching for a star that I could never possibly reach...

[blackzj52]

so wait, how long ago was it that she stopped replying to you?
if it was very recent (within the past couple days) maybe her phone took a dump on her?
if not, then id just let it go man. shit happens sometimes

[trialqw]

lol it has been I think 3 weeks... Its uhm our sembreak, kinda like a short vacation just after the exam... well at least she just added me to her Yahoo messenger but lol I think she'll be like permanently invisible XD....
Yeah I know I stopped texting her for 4 days now lol... sigh*
But still I haven't talked to her about this situation, and I dunno, don't want to coz it might further worsen the problem....

[IndiReloaded]

Sounds like she's just not that into you. Shrug, move along.

[Illusional]

is it really that obvious?? or are you really that blind?? you don't text people who you don't want to start a relationship with right??

raverboy

[trialqw]

So for the ladies..
There are really people like this???
Close friends that leave you hangin no whatsoever lol...
Not even an explanation...
XD well I guess she wants to graduate first... because before when I was still able to talk with her.. She has never had a bf and said that she turned down a lot and wont reply to them either... Even her classmates and close friends said that she has no crush or whatsoever...
Maybe? wait? because she is really a rare one @_@

One that my family would accept lol considering I come from a family of doctors and strict parents lol...

[IndiReloaded]

Mbe she's lesbian? Or mbe she is serious about her studies & can't be bothered with a guy?

Who cares? She's not into you & all her signals (or lack of) are consistent with this.

Got a problem with 'No', buddy?

[agatha]

There are people who are like those. Like me, If I don't like the guy then I would cut our communication without telling him the reason. In that case, I think she doesn't like you to be more than friends. Shes enough with just friends, i think!

[trialqw]

ouch............ Bummer......

Why did I have to go that far rofl.... Man really miss talkin with her

crap....

Stupid me @_@