what doors does the BF/GF key open?

[XPRabbit]

I want to get everyone opinion on this because i know it will very depending on the person.

What doors does the BF/GF key open that the Friend key can't?

to put it simply, what can your partner do that your friends can't?
i mean this Physically and mentally, how does declaring someone your lover change your relationship.

This is purely out of curiosity, lol i have a weird interest in figuring out what drives people.
i would answer but i have been single my whole life and can't say i have a solid opinion.

[Mish]

to put it simply, what can your partner do that your friends can't?

That's a funny question. Along the lines of "What can a person do, that a dog can't?"

The answer is lots of things. I suppose you are asking what's the difference between relationships and just casual having sex with a friend?

- Relationships provide you with commitment (meaning your friend will not sleep around with others and infect you with diseases).

- Relationships provide you with genuine interest for your well being and interest for you to succeed in life, since that success becomes a mutual necessity. It's not a mutual necessity in a friendship, thus the interest is not as strong.

- Relationships provide you with a steady supply of intimacy, passion, venting room etc. In a way that friends simply can't. You can't ask as much from your friend as you can from your partner.

- Relationships is a ticket towards having a family. I suppose you could have a family with a casual friend, but I envision such a family would most likely be dysfunctional.

[gartlas]

erm its pretty basic , if theyre your bf/gf u can just go aheead and randomly kiss them. u can hold their hand , put ur arm around their waist or on the small of their back. U can be more suggestive than normal and get away with it. *sighs* all those things Ima gonna miss :/

EDIT: oh and theres sex ..thats like kind of a given XD

[XPRabbit]

That's a funny question. Along the lines of "What can a person do, that a dog can't?"

The answer is lots of things. I suppose you are asking what's the difference between relationships and just casual having sex with a friend?

that's part of the question, i mean everything, sex, casual day by day acts, mental attraction and physical.

i know some people that won't hug a guy that isn't dating them and others that will kiss friends, i just wanna know what making someone your BF/GF changes in your eyes.

can they hold your hand as a friend or is that too close? cuddling ect. i have friends that will cuddle with everyone but won't take off there cloths, and the other friends that have a touch barrier that only a lover can break.

[Only-virgins]

sex

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[Mish]

i know some people that won't hug a guy that isn't dating them and others that will kiss friends, i just wanna know what making someone your BF/GF changes in your eyes.

can they hold your hand as a friend or is that too close? cuddling ect. i have friends that will cuddle with everyone but won't take off there cloths, and the other friends that have a touch barrier that only a lover can break.

These are subtleties, they will vary from person to person. Being in relationship or friendship won't really define them. E.g. you can have a friend who hugs everyone and a partner who is not really into hugging. It will depend on the person.

[Only-virgins]

Its just sex!

[doppelgaenger]

It really depends. Every relationship is different.

[XPRabbit]

It really depends. Every relationship is different.

lol that's why i posted this, i wanna know how things change for you personally when the title changes.

[Only-virgins]

You get sex...SEX! wtf just sex!

[Gigabitch]

They can break your heart. Friends don't generally do that.

[gartlas]

damn...giga is a deeper thinker than all of us :/

[Lite]

They can break your heart. Friends don't generally do that.

Close friends gone bad can hurt you just as much.

[Gigabitch]

The only guy that ever broke my heart was my "friend". I'm a lot more careful who I call a friend any more.

I'm talking about real friends.

[Junket]

Here's one that you all forgot.

Sex.

You can thank me, now.