Do women in general regret having a **** buddy?
I recently broke up with my gf of 4 years, i was her first everything and loved her to death.
2 weeks after the break up she started having sex with a guy exclusively. He is leaving in 2 months and she isn't looking for a relationship with him her and her friends tell me.
She never used to be like this and used to get disgusted at girls who did this kind of thing.
She seems pretty attached to him at the moment and he doesn't seem to care.
Do you think she will regret this?
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24-03-09, 04:37 AM #1
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**** Buddy..
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24-03-09, 04:48 AM #2
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Sounds like she is confused and trying to get her confidence back.
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24-03-09, 05:10 AM #3
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hmm i dunno about that,
The break up was because she "lost feelings for me"
So i don't think it would be because she lost confidence.
If anything she would have gained confidence by all the begging and pleading i did for 3 weeks. Big mistake i know ;(
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24-03-09, 05:17 AM #4
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Originally Posted by Bigboy77
She's no longer your girlfriend... what she does from this point on shouldn't matter to you anymore. If she wants you back... she knows where to find you. Till then, it would be best to focus on getting over her and moving on."The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
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24-03-09, 05:20 AM #5
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He's a rebound clown and she's probably going to get hurt and right now she doesn't care because she's trying to fill up the space you left any way she can.
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24-03-09, 08:17 AM #6
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Yeah that makes sense..
I just don't know if she would consider me after being with him though.. He's very attractive and very very fit.
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24-03-09, 08:19 AM #7
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If you think she would overlook you because of physical features... can you honestly say a woman that shallow is really worth having? Originally Posted by Bigboy77
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen
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24-03-09, 08:27 AM #8
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Why would you want her back considering you were the one who broke up with her? Originally Posted by Bigboy77
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
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24-03-09, 08:33 AM #9
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I broke up because it's what she wanted. We weren't working out because she said she lost feelings for me and just wanted to be friends. It was causing us both a lot of pain and dragged on for 1 month.
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24-03-09, 08:34 AM #10
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and i want her back because i've been with her for 4 years, my first true love. our families love each other and everything was great up until this point.
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24-03-09, 09:02 AM #11
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Well, I guess the key word is that she no longer has feelings for you then. Originally Posted by Bigboy77
I don't think you can fix that. But look on the bright side, would you 'really' want to be with someone who has no feelings for you?
Will she regret it or not. Maybe. But what's important is that you find a way to move on and forget about her. The best revenge is to live a happy life
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
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24-03-09, 10:04 AM #12
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aaah but theres gotta be a way to get her to feel for me again :S
Everything was perfect.. I just messed up really bad for 1 month...
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24-03-09, 10:40 AM #13
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the past is the past and you can chance that. wait. that's all you can do right now. if the guy is really gonna leave like you said wait it out. if she loves you, she'll be back. if not there will be other girls. i know you want to fix things but if you keep chacing her she'll only run. give her some time. that all you can to. if this ment to be it will happen.
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24-03-09, 12:23 PM #14
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Plan for the worst... hope for the best... not much else you can do...
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen
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